From an outsiders point of view, New Yorkers tend to be categorized as mean spirited and unfriendly. As a resident of this city, I can attest that most are not. I think that if they are, it arises from an insecurity of their social standing. Perhaps it is the highly competitive nature of this city, but everywhere you go, you will find people far more successful than you could fathom. Here, this feeling of trying to beat out the Joneses is deeply penetrated. I work in a financial institution with a few outstanding personalities whom exhibit this trait.
When I wake up every morning to go to work, I feel a part of my soul chips away. I spend too much of my time helping people who don't care about anything but fattening their wallets. In exchange for their determination to cut deals, they discard any sense of decency towards others. For example, demeaning their underlings by saying that they will not ever amount to what they are is deplorable, especially if it comes from a person twice your age. Especially disturbing is these people's sense of entitlement. Money can take you so far, and unless you are part of that billionaire's club, don't expect everyone to kowtow to you. Disclaimer: I don't think people who have a net worth of over a billion should receive a better treatment than others.
I can't give an accurate psychoanalysis of everyone I work with, however, I can say the financial industry creates a lot of pressure for these people. They work long hours, am constantly on the go, are trained to just make money and early on in their lives, learn to spend out of their means. Sure, these factors create anxiety amongst these people, but I think most who enter it, have a need to have the title and status early on.
The fact that the colleges and institutions make it difficult to enter the industry without the right pedigree creates a sort of mystical nature about it. If I were to ask the general populace about what bankers, private equity and hedge fund guys really do, most wouldn't know. Due to the economy, the government and these financial institutions are starting to air out their dirt. I can't even count on my hand how many scandals have been created by financial executives. Even under the radar of the government, they still manage to create many blunders. How can individuals without any moral sense lead our nation's biggest banks? In the future, what can we do to assure that these financial guys will not lead us to a recession of this magnitude? Unfortunaltey, the lack of cash flow at my firm, hasn't moralized any of my co-workers / employers...